Why there is no chance you will succeed in your career?
Throughout my own career, as a career and personal branding consultant,
I met two types of people, if we just for a minute give it the terms of black and white.
The first type is people who made a decision. Just like that. people that decided they would like to act.
And when you make a decision, the other stages, which means setting the path, the road, becomes very clear. The point is there are no doubts and no “what ifs”.
The other type is people that are sitting on the fence, foot here foot there, unwilling to make any decision, which might jeopardize what they already have.
And it doesn’t matter if they don’t like what they have.
I found out that this is how people are, they would rather keep with the familiar than walk in the dark. They prefer to stay with what they have. Yes, even when they think they need a change.
I know these two types, and it’s even easy to distinguish between them.
The first – A DOER.
Even if there are concerns, even if there are uncertainties [and just between you and me, aren’t there always uncertainties?], Even if the situation is uncertain or unclear. they would act, they would do, they would try!
The second – DOUBTFUL.
Phrases like “what if he doesn’t agree”, “what if it fails”, “are you sure it will work”.
These are negative, non-motivating sentences, that mean: I’m not going to do a thing, there are too many risks to be taken.
In real life, we have no idea what will happen.
At the same time, we have the possibility as part of this circle of uncertainty, to build the life we want to have.
And for that, COURAGE is needed.
Not everyone has it, and yet again, you CAN develop this muscle.
During my own career, I met two types of people. Those who had the courage, who decided and also did – these people had come to great outcomes, even if there were challenges along the way [because everyone has challenges, the question is how you response them].
Here are three tips to help you manage your career and create the big success story of yours:
MAKE A DECISION.
The stage of hesitation is the one that prevents you from moving forward. Learn to make a decision, even if you don’t have all the details. Force yourself to make a decision.
CONNECT WITH WHO YOU ARE, your uniqueness and your added value.
Act from that point forward.
Look at yourself in the eyes and trust your abilities. Be the first to believe in yourself.
DEVELOP THE MUSCLE OF COURAGE.
Courage is the ability to act even in conditions of uncertainty and in the face of difficulties. Learn to live with the uncertainty. Act with courage, and it will open you up to new opportunities, many of which are great opportunities.
The job market is a tool to help you express yourself.
Make a decision, connect with who you are and bravely embark on.
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